I’ve had three kids go off to college now.
It was funny how in high school, when they started the
process of selecting a college, I heard a lot of comments like “I want to go to
school in Arizona (or California, Texas, South Dakota, Hawaii…).” It was always
someplace far away from, and warmer than, Wisconsin.
Then in the senior year of high school the reality of
leaving home hit hard, and the college search focused on schools in the
Midwest.
Doubts started creeping in at this point. My kids wondered, “Do I really want to go to college? I’m
making a good living stocking produce at Pick ‘N Save. Why do I need to leave
for four years just to get a good job when I already have a good job?!”
And then the college visits started.
At the schools, as we walked around campus touring the
buildings and grounds, each of my incredibly loud and seriously weird kids
suddenly became quiet, introspective and tried their best to blend in with the
mass of other oddly behaving potential students on campus. They were filled
with anxiety, fear and insecurity. When evening rolled around, and it was time
to leave my child with a stranger for their overnight visit, I felt like the
worst mom in the world. What was I doing
to them? They don’t even want to be here!
I don’t know what happened between the angst-filled parting
and breakfast the next morning, but my child was returned to me each time as an
excited, confident young adult eager to venture into college life. Was it the video games played until three o’clock
in the morning? Was it the limitless supply of junk food displayed on every
dust-covered surface in every smelly dorm room? Was it the game of human
bowling ball played in the hallways? Whatever it was, it definitely was the
college experience that sold my kids
on post-secondary education.
Shepherds College offers something similar... sans the insanely
late nights and flesh-and-blood sports equipment.
Chris Wright |
The ESCV is a vital part of the application process. Once a
student submits an application, we encourage them to schedule their ESCV and
complete a packet of medical forms in preparation for the visit.
What happens then?
When a visiting student arrives on campus, the student and
family meet with Chris Wright who will introduce them to the Nursing staff to
discuss any medical issues. After this
important meeting, either Chris or Brian Canright will go over the schedule for
how the student’s time will be spent on campus. They talk to the student about when
they will be having assessments and what classes they’ll be taking during their
stay. Classes could include Language Arts, Money Skills, Personal Development,
Personal Bible Study, Roots of Faith, Study Skills, Computer Skills, Daily
Living Skills, Health or Intro to either Culinary Arts or Horticulture.
Roots of Faith Class |
Suitcases and duffel bags get dropped off by Mrs. Harvey for
safe keeping, and Chris or Brian will walk our visitor to their first class
where they are introduced to the teacher and the other students.
The teacher will assign our ESCV visitor a host for their
stay. The host is a first-year student who has expressed interest in this
special role and who has determined his or her spiritual gift of hospitality.
Here is what two of our student hosts say about the hosting experience:
"I would see if the visitor needed help. If they do then I will help them with whatever they need help
with. If they have a difficult time with anything then I’ll ask the teacher to
help. If the teacher can’t help them then we will try to help them." ~ Kathryn
"I would get to know the person so I
could get along with them better. Then I could know how the student learns and
not assume on how the student learns and how the person gets along with
others. They could be so nice to someone to make them feel welcomed and
feel like they are important. Making someone feel like that makes them
feel important. When someone makes someone feel important, the person
that is made to feel important wants to be around the other person all the
time. When a visiting student comes, I would like to get to know them for
who they really are. I want to try to get along with everyone and be an example for the other
students on how to treat a visiting student." ~ Nikki
At the end of the school day, the host will help our visitor
pick up their bags and find their dorm room. Once in the room, the Res Life
staff will help them get settled as well as go over important stuff like what
to do if the fire alarm goes off, where the staff member will be at night, and
anything else that will put our visitor at ease.
Now it’s time for the evening programming! It can be any of a
variety of well-supervised activities that involve board games, movies, sports,
dinner, scrapbooking, shopping, parties, outings, art appreciation, community
service, etc…
Chris and Brian check in often during the visitor’s stay to
make sure that everything is going well.
When the ESCV is over, our Res Life staff will make sure bags are packed up and ready for our visitor’s departure… provided our
visitor ever wants to leave.
Shepherds College - Guiding Your Transition to Appropriate Independence. Please visit us at www.shepherdscollege.edu.
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