Teacher Tuesday: Wedding Wishes

Day 23 of the 31 for 21 Challenge

Photo by Heather McKittrick, 2012

Miss Fye is getting married!

She and Matthew Cyr will be saying their “I do’s” to each other on October 27^th at 10 AM in Jamestown, NY where Miss Fye grew up. The service will be held at The Spire, the oldest church in Jamestown.

The reception sounds as creative as Miss Fye! She’s having a brunch at the Village Casino (it’s not a real casino) in Bemus Point, NY – eggs, pancakes, muffins, home fries, sausage and a yogurt bar. The banquet hall will be decorated with pumpkins, burlap, hay bales, leaves and other fall items.

While the guests wait for the newlyweds to arrive at the hall, they can carve pumpkins and have their pictures taken in the photo booth.

And no wedding cake for this girl! Instead the guests will have their choice of pies - pumpkin, apple, chocolate, and a local favorite, concord grape.

  

The students are excited for their Instructor and Academic Advisor, and want to pass along their best wishes:

Daniela

 “I wish you good luck! And have fun! Take lots of really good pictures.” Daniela

"Congrats on your marriage! I hope it’s a happy one and that you have a great time on your Honey Moon." Kati

  
“I will pray for you. It’s good to stay with one person.” Josh

Audrey

 “Have a happy marriage and a great honeymoon too!” Audrey

“Congratulations on your big day!” Andrew

“Congratulations! Good luck!” Sarah

Sean

“My blessing for you is that you are my advisor for life forever.” Sean

 “Have a fun time!” Christian

 “Have a great rest of your life together!” Brian

Joe

“Congratulations on having successfully completed your marriage. I hope you have a good relationship from here on out.” Joe

“I hope you have a happy marriage. I’m happy you’re getting married. Best wishes. We’re all praying for you!” Dallas

Philip

“Miss Fye, good luck. Have a great time. I hope for the best for you. I hope you will have a great and faithful marriage experience.” Philip

“Good luck and do good!” Christi

“Live long and prosper together.” Charles

Lindsay

“Congratulations! Good luck on your marriage. I really enjoy your class and I will miss you. I hope you come back soon. I love you like a sister-in-Christ.” Lindsay

“Have a great time! Good luck and God bless!” Nicole

Bethany

“You’re fantastic! I hope your wedding is too.” Bethany

 “You picked the right man and made the right decision.” David

  “I am excited for you! Have a great time and a great honeymoon!” Krista

 

Donovan

“I hope you have a blessed life together. I hope your marriage is really fulfilling.” Donovan

“Good luck.” Israel

Kathryn

 “Best of luck. I hope you have a happy marriage.” Katy

“I hope your wedding goes smoothly and the pies are delicious! I hope you found the man of your dreams.” Kathryn

 

Miss Fye will return to Shepherds College as Mrs. Cyr on November 1^st.

All our heartfelt prayers go out to Elyse and Matthew as they commit themselves to sharing a God-glorifying life together.

Photo by Heather McKittrick, 2012

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs, Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease, where there are tongues, they will be stilled, where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror, then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. And now these three remain; faith, hope and love. But the greatest is love.”  1 Corinthians 13:4-13

 

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Friday's Top Five: More 31 for 21 Blogs

Day 19 of the 31 for 21 Challenge

I’ve read a lot of blogs on Down syndrome this month.

Most were written by tired, concerned, proud, loving moms who are determined to make a difference - to change a mind, or change a society - in an effort to make this world a better, more accepting place for their children with Down syndrome, and others like them.

Some were written by professional journalists/authors/bloggers whose carefully selected words drew me into their world of Down syndrome, doctor visits, milestones and miracles in a way that made parenting a child with disabilities a very real experience, if only for the moments I was engaged in their story.

And some were simply photo albums, visual journals of the special moments in the life of a child with Down syndrome.

All had value. And that’s what made it so tough to pick five to highlight for you today!

So I decided to go a more whimsical route in selecting today’s 31 for 21 blogs. I picked titles that included qualities I admire in my friends and hope to cultivate in myself: grace, hope, joy and love.

1.       Grace Upon Grace –

           Lisa writes this blog on her family's life, including her daughter Magdalena who has Down syndrome and an AV canal heart defect. Occasionally she also offers her reflections, passes on suggestions, and shares some ideas.

2.       Breathe Hope – 

Claire’s daughter has Down syndrome. She believes that Elina brings a little more light into this hard, confusing world. She writes to share that light.

3.       Discovering Joy – 

Bahama Mama is a Marine spouse who knows each of her three children is a blessing from God, made in His likeness with no mistakes. Her youngest Danielle has three copies of her 21^st chromosome. She writes about embracing that little “something extra.”

4.       Love Life and Be Gentle – 

Shannon has a happy home - two girls, two boys, one with an extra special chromosome. She writes about loving life. And being gentle.

5.       Unexpected Joy – 

Tami and her husband adopted a child with Down syndrome through the foster care system. Through this blog, she wants to share about her family, and how life is good, but different, caring for a child who has a disability.

Whether it’s these blogs or others, please share your favorites with us too!

 


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Just Enough Cooks in the Kitchen

Day 13 of the 31 for 21 Challenge

Thank you to guest blogger, Kris Mickelson, for visiting the Culinary Arts kitchen and writing this blog!

You’ve probably heard the old saying, “too many cooks in the kitchen spoil the broth.” But the day I visited Shepherds College, just enough cooks were in the Culinary Arts kitchen—11 to be exact—to prepare a luscious-smelling beef stock!

The 2^nd year culinary students will make 40 gallons of stock this semester altogether. Some will become part of the recipe for New England Clam Chowder for Preview Days on Oct 12 and Nov. 9. A lot will be used in the school commissary to prepare meals, such as chilies, pastas, pot roasts, soups and stews. 

The students start by chopping celery, carrots and onions, which will add flavor and aroma to the stock. Chef McCarthy tells me this veggie combo is called a Mirepoix in traditional French cooking. 

The chopped vegetables soak in bowls of cold water for 10 minutes, allowing any soil that may remain after washing to float to the top. Emptying and filling the huge bowls results in a lot of splashing around the two sinks. 

Chef McCarthy reminds the class the more mess you make, the more you have to clean up. 

 

“Simply turn down the water so it doesn’t splash so much," he advises. "Get in the habit of making less of a mess. That way, you won’t have so much to clean afterward.”

The faucets are turned down and a frenzy of mopping begins.  Christian stands at the ready, towel in hand, as Miranda rinses the last batch of veggies. 

The students all work together remarkably well, considering the close quarters of the kitchen work stations.

Chef McCarthy explains that teamwork is part of culinary school, because it’s essential to working in any restaurant kitchen. He’s developed an acronym to help the students remember called H.O.T., for Help Others Thrive.  

Next, the students fill metal half-trays (about the size of standard cookie sheets) with veal bones and baste them with tomato sauce using pastry brushes. The trays are loaded into a professional stainless-steel oven, and within minutes the aroma starts to make my mouth water and my stomach grumble. It’s not even close to lunchtime!

The final kitchen task is clean up. While the students carry bowls, cutting boards and French knives to the dishwasher (handles up, blades facing back), they stop to chat with me for a second or two.

“Chef McCarthy is a good instructor,“ Lindsay tells me with a big smile. 

“I’ll give you that $20 bucks later, Lindsay,” Chef McCarthy quips in response. 

“I just love food, that’s why I want to learn to cook!” Miranda offers. 

“My dream is to work in the Cobblestone Creek restaurant in Brillion, Wisconsin,” Lindsay adds. 

Based on my observations, I fully believe Lindsay, Miranda, Christian and the other 2^nd year culinary students at Shepherd’s College will reach their dream goals, and become part of the perfect number of new cooks in restaurant kitchens and bakeries in 2014!

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JOY!

Day 8 of the 31 for 21 Challenge

Hi, my name is Kris Mickelson. And as part of the 31 for 21 Challenge, Shepherds College has graciously asked me to post a guest blog for you. 

I am a huge fan of the college’s mission of training students with intellectual abilities to live lives of Appropriate Independence. In my former job, I was delighted to help the college by putting faculty in touch with my colleagues at Taste of Home to visit the test kitchen and publish a mention of the college in the magazine. 

Culinary Arts students visiting the Taste of Home Test Kitchen

You can imagine my excitement when I was invited to spend time with the students by attending classes and sitting down to lunch to talk one-on-one, then writing about my experiences. 

Some of my observations are what you might expect of any school or college… 

…the “ah-ha moment” when the light of understanding flipped on for a student. You could see it on Zoe’s face in Ready 4 Life class, his hand shooting up like a rocket! 

…a presentation by another student gifted with natural story-telling ability and dramatic flair. Charlie’s animated gestures during his “picture speech” won the hearts and appreciative laughter of his audience. 

But the biggest discovery I made during my visit at Shepherds College is something I think is rare in many of today’s classrooms. 

That rare quality is JOY!  

Whether attending class, walking down the hall or sitting at lunch, the students, teachers and faculty show genuine gladness in their work and their studies. It’s hard to explain, but I know I saw it when…

…in a warm classroom of sleepy students Mrs. Kolkman stopped the lesson for a mid-class exercise. “Walk, spin, wake up, ok, sit down,” she instructed. The students, now fully awake, were all ears!

…Lindsay raced down the hall and tackled Mrs. Griffis in an appreciative bear hug.  Several students stopped to pose for her camera, their smiles lighting up the hallway!

 …I sat down to lunch with Kati, Katy, Crystal, Amanda, Josh, Christian and Donovan and was immediately accepted into their exuberant conversation. “What are you doing here?” “I watched the ‘Avengers’ last night, have you seen it?" “ Have you read ‘Breaking Dawn’?” “ I’m going to see the Special Olympics tonight.” 

Since I can’t seem to find quite the right words to sum up my experiences at Shepherds College, I looked for and found a bible verse:

“For you make me glad by your deeds, Lord; I sing for joy at what your hands have done.” Psalm 92:4

You see, I left the campus exhilarated and full of joy, because that’s what I saw and experienced. Sure, there was also hard work…but it was covered in the joy of learning (or teaching others) to use the gifts God has given us. 

I hope to return to Shepherd’s College again soon. I highly recommend it to anyone who wants to visit or volunteer among students and teachers who share the joy of what God’s Hands have done for us.

  

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